Social Media is toxic & I'm done Forever.

warmcoals

oh yall….it is fucking messy to dig into a trans woman’s personal conflicts, psyche, and coping mechanisms, none of which are meant to be for public scrutiny, and play judge jury and executioner with her entire fucking character, livelihood, and life. this happens once a month at least and we can’t keep cannibalizing each other like this.

even if a given trans woman is selfish, or immature, or problematic or whatever the fuck, it’s 100% because of how she’s processing the trauma she’s built up over her life, trauma which you will never know the extent of and probably contain in parallel within yourself. try to envision the callout post that would reveal all your deepest traumas and mistakes to the entire interent publicly and forever before sharing one, let alone making one.

if a trans woman does something you don’t like, you can internally disavow her and cut her out of your life, you can talk to friends about how you’re hurt or disappointed, you can live without compromising your own morals at all and that’s good, you need to focus on your wellbeing and healing first and foremost. but we as trans women need to start fucking recognizing the difference between abuse/fascism and mistakes/immaturity/normal painful human emotions and processes of growing up in this world. because whether you think some online personality or popular blogger or whoever has “influence” or “an audience,” the truth is that as poor trans women in this world our physical, financial, mental, and emotional states are all nearly exactly the same in their frailty, and it just takes one popular callout post to fucking shatter all of those in one go.

do you want to be part of destroying a human being, a trans woman like you, because you’re uncomfortable? is that how justice is gonna work in our new cuddly leftist-whatever dream world, point and shoot? because if it is, im ready to fucking die, and i hope you all are too ladies

See, that’s what the app is perfect for.

Social Media is toxic & I'm done Forever.

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